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Thread Author: Cliff Pope Replies: 25

 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ? - Cliff Pope
This is a delicate male problem which other forumites may have had to face.

My wife is at the time of life, I am told, when she is liable to become scatty, careless, moody and aggresive. It does not do much for her driving style, and on one or two accasions I have actually been scared. She has ignored, or not noticed, speed restrictions, and tends to drive round country lanes in the blissful confidence that there will never be another car coming round the corner.
When I tried having a tactful word, merely mentioning that she ought to have thanked a neighbour who reversed to a passing place for her rather than charging straight past without slowing, it triggered a seismic explosion which threatened to end life as we know it.

Yesterday my daughter asked whether I had noticed that her mother's driving had got worse, and confided that she was now scared of riding in the car with her.

What do you think I should do? Provoke another explosion, or just wait for the inevitable crash and hope that it is only a minor one that will shock her into realisation?
 Messages Author Date
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  Cliff Pope 24 Jul 10 16:07
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  PeterEA 24 Jul 10 16:13
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  Armel Coussine 24 Jul 10 16:15
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  Iffy 24 Jul 10 16:19
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  Old Navy 24 Jul 10 16:46
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ..  Runfer D'Hills 24 Jul 10 17:04
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wis..  Ian (Cape Town) 24 Jul 10 17:35
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wi..  Runfer D'Hills 24 Jul 10 17:39
 Tactful driving advice, or death-w..  Ian (Cape Town) 24 Jul 10 17:57
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wis..  Dog 24 Jul 10 17:38
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wi..  bathtub tom 24 Jul 10 18:24
 Tactful driving advice, or death-w..  MD 24 Jul 10 18:48
 Tactful driving advice, or death-..  Cliff Pope 25 Jul 10 05:46
 Tactful driving advice, or death..  - 25 Jul 10 07:31
 Tactful driving advice, or dea..  Stuu 25 Jul 10 09:32
 Tactful driving advice, or de..  Zero 25 Jul 10 09:46
 Tactful driving advice, or death..  teabelly 25 Jul 10 09:57
 Tactful driving advice, or dea..  Londoner 25 Jul 10 19:56
 Tactful driving advice, or de..  Cliff Pope 26 Jul 10 11:10
 Tactful driving advice, or d..  Dog 26 Jul 10 12:49
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  L'escargot 26 Jul 10 12:51
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  Mapmaker 26 Jul 10 14:46
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ?  Old Navy 26 Jul 10 15:13
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wish ..  WillDeBeest 26 Jul 10 15:53
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wis..  Zero 26 Jul 10 16:26
 Tactful driving advice, or death-wi..  Mapmaker 26 Jul 10 16:51
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