>> >> If you find it funny, you don't find it offensive. The fact that someone
>> else
>> >> might find it offensive is or should be up to them.
>>
>> I don't think funny and offensive are mutually exclusive.
>>
>> There are plenty of jokes, racist, sexist, those that do the rounds after a natural
>> disaster, which might raise a titter. They're still offensive though.
Yes, I take the point...but what I meant was, if the recipient finds it funny, then they themselves are not offended by it, are they?