I think you are quite right Dutchie. Xmas is all about family, and most children like it. Apart from JWs who don't celebrate Xmas I think. Seeing as I only have my old Mum, and very little to do with another family member, I always make sure I spend time with her on Cmas Day.
Many is the time I have been invited to join friends for a slap up meal ( which doesn't actually bother me. I'd be happy with poached eggs on toast) but declined. Likewise always staying at home instead of with my overseas friends. I would feel dreadfully guilty about not seeing her, but still enjoy a small meal for two and time watching some carp TV.
Otoh I know people with family who just go overboard with presents. Literally piles & piles of presents, the vast majority of it unwanted. Adults & children alike.
The best present is giving someone your time
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