Come on Humph, where's your backbone?:)
At the first 'Do you mind if we join you' fix them with a stare straight in the eye (don't waver) and say 'Actually we do, we spend little time together during the year and we want to do just that'
I can tell you from experience it works, but on second thoughts perhaps it might be a good idea to get Mrs Humph to do it. Women are better at that type of thing.
Pat
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