>> mothers (usually but not always) using children as some sort of a weapon to beat their ex with, it's devastating for
>> all concerned and does them no good in the long term either and only serves to satisfy their own peculiar mental
>> problems temporarily
Nail, head.
I've kept all my correspondence, emails, texts and court paperwork, so that if I failed now then when my lad's natural curiousity took its course at age 16 or so I could have showed him just how hard I tried. It's worn me right down to be honest - I was going to give it until the end of 2010 then give up, for the sake of a normal life for my older children.
Got the final family court hearing in two weeks, I should come away with a defined order. For one reason and another, the ex has complied 100% with the interim order and is looking like she'll do the same with the final one. Good.
Last edited by: Dave_TD {P} on Tue 30 Mar 10 at 22:57
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