>>Perhaps a more Zen approach to travel might help you.
We all have a speed we are comfortable with. Any delay or any rushing which shifts us out of that zone irritates us. The more it irritates us the more effort we will put into preventing it, fixing it or avoiding it.
So when I am travelling socially, I know the environment I have put myself in and I know how much time it can take.
I also travel a lot so I know when someone is taking the pee and know how much I am prepared to do about it. Which usually is not much.
Things get irritating when we haven't allowed ourselves enough time to do whatever needs to be done.
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